Everything about David Reimer totally explained
David Reimer (born
August 22,
1965 as
Bruce Reimer, died
May 4,
2004) was a Canadian man who was born as a healthy boy, but was
sexually reassigned and raised as female after his
penis was inadvertently destroyed during
circumcision. Psychologist
John Money oversaw the case and reported the reassignment as successful, as evidence that
gender identity is primarily learned.
Milton Diamond later reported that Reimer never identified as female, and that he began living as male at age 14. Reimer later went public with his story to discourage similar medical practices. He committed suicide at the age of 38.
Overview
David Reimer was born as a male identical twin in
Winnipeg, Manitoba. His birth name was Bruce; his twin brother was named Brian. At the age of 6 months, after concern was raised about how Bruce and Brian urinated, both boys were diagnosed with
phimosis. They were referred for circumcision at the age of 8 months. On
April 27,
1966, doctors performed the circumcision using an unconventional method in which skin would be burned. The procedure didn't go as doctors had planned, and Bruce's penis was burned beyond surgical repair.
Bruce's parents, concerned about his prospects for future happiness and sexual function without a penis, took him to
Johns Hopkins Medical Center in Baltimore to see Dr.
John Money, a
psychologist who was developing a reputation as a pioneer in the field of sexual development and
gender identity, based on his work with
intersex patients. Money was a prominent proponent of the theory that gender identity was relatively plastic in infancy and developed primarily as a result of social learning from early childhood; some academics in the late 1960s believed that all psychological and behavioral differences between males and females were learned. The Reimers had seen Money, being interviewed on the Canadian news program
This Hour Has Seven Days, where he discussed his theories about gender. He, and other physicians working with young children born with abnormal genitalia, believed that a penis couldn't be replaced but that a functional
vagina could be constructed surgically, and that Bruce would be more likely to achieve successful, functional sexual maturation as a girl than as a boy.
They persuaded his parents that sex reassignment would be in Bruce's best interest, and, at the age of 22 months, surgery was performed to remove his
testes. He was
reassigned to be
raised as a female and given the name 'Brenda'. Psychological support for the reassignment and surgery was provided by John Money, who continued to see Brenda for years, both for treatment and to assess the outcome. This reassignment was considered an especially valid test case of the social learning concept of gender identity for two reasons. First, Bruce/Brenda had a twin brother, Brian, who made an ideal control since the two not only shared genes and family environments, but they'd shared the intrauterine environment as well. Second, this was reputed to be the first reassignment and reconstruction performed on a male infant who had no abnormality of prenatal or early postnatal
sexual differentiation.
Money often took pictures of them both in the nude, claiming it was for scientific comparison, but Reimer claimed that Money sexually abused both twins and took far too many photos for their shoots to be deemed innocent. This was a large factor contributing to his fear of Money and desire to never go back for his help. (This was said in a 20/20 interview.)
For several years, Money reported on Brenda's progress as the "John/Joan case", describing apparently successful female gender development, and using this case to support the feasibility of sex reassignment and surgical reconstruction even in non-intersex cases. Money wrote: "The child's behaviour is so clearly that of an active little girl and so different from the boyish ways of her twin brother."
Estrogen was given to Brenda when she reached adolescence to induce breast development. However, Brenda had experienced the visits to Baltimore as traumatic rather than therapeutic and when Dr. Money started pressuring the family to bring "her" in for surgery, in which a vagina would be created, the family discontinued the follow-up visits. John Money published nothing further about the case to suggest that the reassignment hadn't been successful.
Reimer's later account, written two decades later with
John Colapinto, described how, contrary to Money's reports, Brenda didn't identify as a girl. She was ostracized and bullied by peers, and neither frilly dresses nor female hormones made her feel female. By the age of 13, Brenda was experiencing suicidal depression, and told her parents she'd commit suicide if they made her see John Money again. In 1980, Brenda's parents told her the truth about her gender reassignment, following advice from Brenda's
endocrinologist and
psychiatrist. At 13, Brenda decided to assume a male gender identity, calling herself David. After learning of the new relationship with his ex-sister, Brian began to experience a pattern of mental disturbance and later developed
schizophrenia. By 1997, David had undergone treatment to reverse the reassignment, including testosterone injections, a double
mastectomy, and two
phalloplasty operations. He also married a woman and became a stepfather to her 3 children.
His case came to international attention in 1997 when he told his story to
Milton Diamond, an academic
sexologist who persuaded David to allow him to report the outcome in order to dissuade physicians from treating other infants similarly. Soon after, David went public with his story and John Colapinto published a widely disseminated and influential account in
Rolling Stone magazine in December 1997. They went on to elaborate the story in a book,
As Nature Made Him: The Boy Who Was Raised as a Girl.
Death
Although the book gave David Reimer more financial security, he'd many other problems in his life, including a separation from his wife, severe problems with his parents, and the death of his twin brother Brian in 2002, from a toxic combination of alcohol and antidepressants.
After being told by his wife on the afternoon of
May 4, 2004 of her wish to separate, Reimer stormed out of the house without revealing where he was going. After he failed to return, his wife called the police to report him missing. The local authorities eventually located him, but told his wife that he didn't want her to know where he was. Two hours later, they called again, informing her of his suicide. Reimer had returned home while she was out and retrieved a
shotgun, sawing off its barrel before leaving. On the morning of
May 5, he drove to the nearby parking lot of a grocery store, parked his car and fatally shot himself in the head.
Social impact of David Reimer's story
The report and subsequent book about Reimer influenced several medical practices and reputations, and even current understanding of the
biology of gender. The case accelerated the decline of sex reassignment and surgery for unambiguous
XY male infants with
micropenis, various other rare congenital malformations, and penile loss in infancy (see
intersexuality.)
It supported the arguments of those who feel that prenatal and early-infantile
hormones have a strong influence on brain differentiation, gender identity and perhaps other
sex-dimorphic behavior. The applicability of this case to appropriate
sex assignment in cases of intersex conditions involving severe deficiency of
testosterone or
insensitivity to its effects is more uncertain. For some people, the inability to predict gender identity or preference in this case confirmed skepticism about doctors' abilities to do so in general, or about the wisdom of using
genital reconstructive surgery to commit an infant with an intersex condition or genital defect to a specific
gender role before the child is old enough to claim a gender identity.
The Intersex Society of North America, who opposes involuntary sex-reassignment, treats the story of David Peter Reimer as a cautionary tale about why one shouldn't needlessly modify the genitals of unconsenting minors.
Among the repercussions was damage to John Money's reputation. Not only had his theory of gender plasticity been dealt a severe blow, but Colapinto's book described bizarrely unpleasant childhood therapy sessions, and implied that Money had ignored or concealed the developing evidence that Brenda's reassignment wasn't going well. Money's defenders have suggested that some of the allegations about the therapy sessions may have been the result of
false memory syndrome., but David's brother and mother both agreed that the therapy was simply and obviously not "working" in the sense that "Brenda" was in any way developing a female self-image. Dr. Money never publicly stated that his conclusions were incorrect.
The reputation of Johns Hopkins Medical Center as an institution at the forefront of progressive care for people with intersex and
transgender conditions was hurt as well. Finally, theories of the malleability and cultural construction of gender identity, already falling out of academic fashion in the 1990s, became harder to defend, as the case was used by many to argue that "nature" trumped "nurture". Today most academics believe that a combination of brain differences as well as hormones are more important in determining gender identity than cultural influences.
In popular culture
- The "Boys will Be Girls" episode of Chicago Hope that aired on February 3, 2000 was based on Reimer's life .
- Additionally, the episode of that aired on January 18, 2005 featured a male twin who had undergone sex reassignment therapy after an accident similar to David Reimer's and subsequent therapy by a psychiatrist reminiscent of Dr. Money (however, that episode ended with the murder of the doctor by one or both of the twins, who successfully tricked the police into being unable to tell which twin had committed the crime—effectively insulating both from prosecution).
- On the album Reunion Tour by the band The Weakerthans a song entitled "Hymn of the Medical Oddity" was inspired by the story of David Reimer. "Born a Boy, Brought up a Girl" is also another television special based on his life as well.
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